You must know what kind of relationship you want from him/ her
Most gurls are so used to asking the question “what kind of relationship do you want?”, and that question constantly piss mi off cuz it used to sound wired to my ears, because I never knew that relationship have differences. And I also know that most gurl whose ask such question don’t really know that, there is different types of relationship.
Relax up your mind let’s get to find out what we really want, and the types of relationship we seek.
Types of relationship
As we all know that there are many types of relationship that exist between people, but here loveswaggs.blogspot.com is interested in the relationship between spores, male and female. most of these type of relationship might sound strange to us but they exist in us.
EXPERIMENTAL RELATIONSHIPS. These are "trying it to test or to experiment what love is like out" relationships. A man who has always chosen partners emotionally similar to his mother, for example, may try Being with someone very different. The intention is to find out how to relate to someone like this person, and what such a relationship is like. That can open a door to finding new ways of behaving with others, and perhaps to discovering little-known sides of oneself and allowing them to grow. Dating relationships often have this quality of exploration. When two people in an experimental relationship make a connection that clicks, it may evolve into one of the dominant forms. Or an experimental relationship that almost clicks, but not quite, may influence what a person looks for in the next partner.
Most of our first relationship is usually this type. tho in the middle of it most guys tend to forget what they are into till the gurl ends it. After the heart break that when the guy or the gurl come to know what she’s in for in relationship.
AVOIDANCE RELATIONSHIPS. This a funny kind of relationship, most people are into it but somehow don’t know exactly what’s going on. There is this gurl, she like you and you also like thing about her but somehow something you can’t explain seem to be blocking you guys’ way of being intimate. It always feels like you want each other; yet you don’t want each other
This pattern may involve people who protect themselves against any deep intimacy with others or any full contact with their own deeper feelings.
Or it may involve people just coming out of a relationship who are afraid of still more of the painful feelings of loss, mourning and failure that often accompany splitting up.
A history of past loss of a parent, other family member, partner, or close friend by abandonment or death, and the fear that "If I get too close to this person it will happen again" is a common part of the pattern. The defining quality is that the partners choose someone with whom they can avoid the feelings or patterns of behavior that they want to stay away from.
This type of relationship is mostly possessed by gurls, yes she wants you but she don’t want you guys to be together yet she won’t let you be, if you bout walking away way she will give sex to keep you close with the reason that she don’t want get hurt again neither does she want to hurt you.
PASTIME RELATIONSHIPS. This is a very sweet type of relationship but very tempting, no strings attached A pastime relationship is essentially recreational& emdash; for fun and games; and is identified as such. Although some hopes may attach themselves, expectations seldom do. A summer romance is likely to be a pastime relationship. In most cases,
Circumstances make it unlikely that the relationship will be an enduring one. Passionate, delightful, and tender while it lasts, there's no expectation that it should be more than that. The dominant mood and theme is "going with it fully for all of what it is." This mostly exists between a sister of your fellow guy friend, or old school friend that you use to e found of. Everybody needs this tho if miss interpreted by your spor it could be dangerious
NOW LETS GET DOWN TO THE EAS;Y KNOWN TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP:
SECURITY LOVE:This love is the love that everybody needs to survive. It is that feeling of being cared for and nurtured. Some people would describe this as the type of love parents have for their children. This is so important: high on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs; and studies have even proven that people have died of a "broken heart" (there have been no explanations for their deaths other than that).
FRIENDSHIP LOVE relationship:This is a love between yourself and someone that is totally honest, open and comfortable. You really only have this kind of bond with a few people. You might know a lot of people and be "friendly" with them in a group situation but they are not the best friends I am talking about here.
I have a theory that you can not truely be best friends with a member of the opposite sex. Down the line romance will always come up from either party and feelings will be misinterpreted and mistaken. When this happens, the friendship will change and possibly never be the same again.
BEST FRIEND OR COMPANIONATE LOVE. This lover enjoys the companionship and intimacy of a close friendship. It is a comfortable, slowly developing, trusting, committed relationship, not intense excitement, desperation, or sexual obsessions.
–Most guy does not believe that a guy and a gurl can be in a close relation without strings attached, it may sound true but it really can exist, as a matter of fact its pretty fun to have a gurl that knows everything bout you vise versa, if you are a player this will favor you cuz she will help bring more gurls to flirt, as much you help arrange you fellow guys for her, if she’s is interested
ROMANTIC LOVE RELATIONSHIP: aahhha this is the most wanted relationship.
(The much anticipated love!) Most people experience this type of love many times in their life. It is when you see that person for the first time and he/she makes your knees go weak or gives you butterflies in your stomach. i.e. "Love at first sight”. Most people don’t even love the person they think they are in love with…they fall in love with the idea if being in love. This is more of a lustful kind of love; it wears off after a while and hopefully leads to...
This lover thinks constantly about the loved one, is jealous, unrealistic, will tolerate anything, is sexually attracted by physical appearance, needs repeated reassurance he/she is loved in return. Typically lasts a few months or a few years.
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE RELATIONSHIP: "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."
This is the sincere love, the love that lasts forever. This kind of love comes when you have found the person you are destined to be with. Nothing can destroy unconditional love. It is like when you have an argument or disagree about something with that person and you realize that it doesn’t bother you because the love you have for him/her overcomes everything.
GAME-PLAYING LOVE RELATIONSHIP: --this kind of relationship is what bout 75%of guys are into (what a man can do, a woman can do even better).
This person may be charming but is hardly a lover; he/she merely enjoys the dating game. He/she relishes the meeting, the impressing, the seducing, the challenge of a conquest but usually makes it clear there is little or no long-term commitment to the other person. Sometimes they may leave to read their mind yourself.
There are other kinds of loves and lovers, of course, like the one who searches for a physical ideal--a great body or some specific bodily feature--or the one who is so possessive he/she wants to control the other person and gets physically sick or depressed or does foolish things when the relationship seems threatened."