Meaning of love / Components Of Love

“I don't have to be your first love, but I do want to be your last."

I want to talk about very powerful four letters words that have convicted the whole mankind, right from the beginning of the world. Seriously it’s funny how people consciously turn themselves in, to be convicted by this four letters word,






Hey! I don’t really think you guys get exactly what I mean by the magnitude of the powers of this word.




As a matter of fact this word am trying to introduce is a murderer…. It has taken the life of many handsome guys, like jack in titanic, caused many beautiful women to commit suicide.. “oh Juliet may you soul rest in peace” (Romeo and Juliet)
This word made tu face grate Nigerian R n B singer, plead to be locked up in jail for life, huh The most amazing of all is that, this same word caused the death of God the son……………. “




Guess I can hear you shout “gush, I can’t take this anymore where tha fuck is that word? lets deal with it. Lol.
Easy dude, take it easy ,


( Read also: Love conquers it all )



It will amaze you that this word is the reason for you happiness and sadness, it’s the reason, why you are still alive, it’s still the same reason that you got her by you side….*wink*.
Guys! Am talking bout LOVE………….let’s talk about love…………..




The super four letter words that everybody really need to survive.
Now the big question comes ………………………………………………

WHAT IS LOVE?

                 Throughout the history of mankind, we as a world culture have made love out to be mysterious, complex, difficult, and indefinable. It’s the subject of endless poems and literary works. There is an enormous amount of material available out there about love, a lot of it contradictory.
What do you feel when you love someone? If distilled down to it’s core components, what would those be? Yes, love is an emotion, a feeling, a wanting, and a “being”. We know it feels good, but what specific feelings, wanting, and beings are present when we feel love. This takes us to the components of love:




*LOVE IS ACCEPTING:
"Love quote; you're, my friend my companion through good times and bad through happy and sad beside me you walk beside me you stand you're there to listen you're there to talk with happiness, with smiles with pain and tears I know you'll be there through all of my years"




Accepting is tagging someone as “okay” and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. ‘I don’t ask you to change; I love you just the way you are” no ‘if’ attached, that is unconditional love. it’s in the eyes of the beholder  

 "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."

LOVE IS APPRECIATING:

“her eyes make the sun look like they are not shining”




Appreciation is one step beyond acceptance. Its when your focus is on what you like about another. We look at them and feel this sweeping appreciation for who they are, their joy, their insights, their humor, their companionship, etc. When someone says they are "in love" with another, they mean, their appreciation is so enormous for this person that it consumes their every thought.
Love is Wanting Another to Feel Good:"Your tears make me want to change the world so that it won't hurt you anymore..."




It is only those whom we love, we want to be happy, safe, healthy, and fulfilled. We want them to feel good in all ways, physically, mentally and emotionally.


( Must Read: Love and Lust; spot the difference )



Woooooooooopssssssss now WE see? THE MAGICAL FOUR LETTER WORD IS
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Love can make you do some Crazy things... but what's really crazy is not being held in your arms....




" USING this to introduce to u the next, upcoming post HOW DO WE EXPRESS LOVE.

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