"If I know what love is, it is because of you."
Thank God I finally found the gurl that I love every single bone especially the ones in her body, now how do I keep this little love of mine shiny so bright , what do I always do to her to let her know that I love her so she won’t leave me for another.(vice versa)
Gush, this gurl is so unsatisfying, despite everything I’ve tried to show her that I love her, yet she won’t believe me,I have bought her everything, took her to so many places where she have never been to; yet she still say I don’t know how to love her! But every time she is with my friend she plays with him and feels so happy around him. I truly love her and I don’t want to lose her. What do I do?
As we all know, it’s one thing to find a partner and another thing to keep them loving us for long. Here are some things you really have to put in practice and add more swag to your love life.
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Find out your partner's preferred "Love Language. You don’t go buying her expensive flowers may be cuz she probably said she love flowers (where she might love chip one only)
Find out if:" they know you love them when you speak words of love? Or maybe they feel loved by your acts of service? Some people feel loved by receiving little gifts, and others by loving touches. Real love is not based on your preference but your partner's.
Clear communication will let your partner know how much you love them. Speaking from your experience is a way of sharing yourself so that your partner can hear it. You might say, "My heart expands when you walk into the room" or "I think about you throughout my day, and each time I do, I smile." Say whatever is true. Remember that actions often speak louder than words; don't just say something, do something.
Actions love: (such as drawing a bath, giving a massage, doing the dishes, or writing a poem).women love to be served, action like doing dishes, a guy should do at random bases to avoid losing your respect to her,
Choose an action that you know your partner will appreciate. Remember, denying yourself never means doing things begrudgingly. If you communicate the desire not to do something loving, you may as well not be doing it.
Spend time being present with your partner. (This is often the least used, but the most powerful form of loving.) Turn off the phone, the TV, computer, and the radio and sit together allowing yourselves to experience each other. Being present with your husband or wife obviously provides the opportunity to serve him or her, so be available to love your spouse.
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SURPRISE GIFT: Always try to be unpredictable guy, always come around with something to present as a gift, this will make her always wanna come around since she will surly get some package from you, most gurl believe that gift giving Is only for the guys. Guys don’t you appreciate gift from gurls? I do. lol. As much as love is reciprocal so is gift giving. Always have something, it doesn’t matter how small or crazy it is, to present to your partner to as a token of your love.
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SPEND THE MONEY WHEN YOU HAVE IT: guys gurl love shopping hanging out, traveling etc, if you kinda have enough money to spending feel free to spending it on her this will make her believe u will do anything for her no matter the cost.
I met a rich gurl friend of mine in a plaza, knowing quite well that I don’t have enough money with me there, she insisted that I must buy ice cream for her, stating the crazy principle that it is only for guy to be doing the buying while the gurl is to do the eating. Baby surprise him on a good day tell him u want him to be the gurl,(so seed on him) spend lil money on him and see what that lil act will help you to achieve(I call this smart investment) cuz it will get the guy planning something bigger for u.
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EVERY LOVE MAKING LIKE IT THE FIRST : for a relationship to be completely romantic their will be love making. Every love making moment in your relationship should be most memorable one. Give it to you partner in a way like em not getting it better than this else were.not making it look like you are being forced to doing it.
Hey don’t just read and walk away, drop your mind or if you have any more advice to the readers pls use the comment box to express it. Thanks for reading this hope this helps you spice up your relationship.
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