If you are scared of water, I wander what else you do outdoors and call it fun, in Africa or Nigeria precisely, As far as most states is concerned I don’t think apart from swimming there is any other common outdoor fun activity you can take pleasure with. Now you see reason why you should not be the boring type and join your friends to swim.
“Fear God and give him glory” the only person we are giving right to be scared of is God apart from that, you should be strong enough to face your fears..
For you to overcome water fears, you will have to know and understand the causes .
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CAUSES OF WATER FEAR:
The term
'aquaphobia' refers to the abnormal and persistent fear of water. It is derived
from the Latin word aqua (water) and the Greek word phobos (fear). Those who
are aquaphobic, avoid any activity that might require them to be near water.
CHILDHOOD
FEAR: This fear may arise due to an early childhood memory related to water.
It's possible that these people nearly drowned or saw someone drown in their
childhood. The lack of self-confidence that one can swim and remain afloat, may
give rise to fear of drowning.
NEGATIVE DREAMS: you maybe having bad dreams where you battle with life or where got
drawn and decide to abstain from all form of activities that may endanger your
life. Mean while who told you that can you can avert destiny, if you have been
destined to die in water, no matter how long you avoid water, when the time is
right, water will find you and kill you… So why not just be like me and take
dreams as just a 9D channel you where subscribe to enjoy your night. Dreams are
just dream unless you are now old then your dreams will start having meanings
which cannot even be interpreted literally.
FEAR OF DRAWING: It often exists as an instinctive
fear related to the fear of drowning. Some people love their life so much that
they think once they step their legs on even the shallow part of the water, that
they will drown. Hell noo. God has given us dominion over all things on the
earth. Which mean even the waters are under your control. You can only drown
when you show the water that you are afraid of it. The it will capitalize on
your weakness and deal with you.
FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN: It can be caused by the fear of the
unknown, of what might be lurking below the water surface in deep, cloudy or
muddy waters. Hello friend those are mind illusions there is no such thing like
monster. There is nothing Beneath the waters except air that you cannot use.
TRANSMITTED BY PARENTS: It may have been transmitted
to a child by parents that were themselves afraid of water. For God sake your
parents are old fashioned, you are born to be greater than them, what they
cannot archive, you should archive that. During their own time they probably
enjoyed playing tales by moon light with their pears why would you let them
kill your swimming fun.
SWIMMING TUTORS CAUSES: It may have been ingrained
by swim teachers that used inadequate and/or stressful methods to teach
swimming. Its your money, if he is not that good with teaching or if you are
not contactable with his teaching techniques… change him and find another or better
still look for a friend that cares about you.
HOW MY BODY LOOKS: Most people feel there body is not that good looking, some people feel they are too fat, some people are so concerned about what people will say about how their body structure looks... one thing is certain about life.. no mater how pretty you look people most talk, no matter how ugly you think you look, their is still someone who loves you just the way you are. so why would you let just words of mouth kill you happiness. friends... be proud of who you, besides i have never seen a handsome or sexy man become the president of Nigeria. (or have you ?)
I have grown up to know that the best way to
overcome any form of monsters in your life is not to show it you are not afraid
of it. Even when you are actually scared, try your best and hide your fears,
focus and look at that monster into its eyes, you will be surprise how it will
bend low and let you be. it worked for me.. friend it will surely work for you.
Just don’t think about the negative aspect, always believe you can do it. Gradually
you will find yourself teaching others how to overcome their fears.
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