EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION; RELATIONSHIP SUPER GUM Part 2

last week, i published the part one of this post, if you missed, read HERE

ALWAYS COMMUNICATE YOUR LOVE: one African man was coming back from a men convention were they were thought how to express their love to their wife, this man on getting to the gate of his house, his wife came hugged him welcome with smile on his face he then wanted to practice what they where thought at that convention and said to his wife “oh my darling I miss you”  his wife pulled back and answer “is this what you were thought their”. Suddenly the smile dis appeared from the mans face.

         Because this African man is not use to expressing his love to his wife, the woman was surprise to hear that from him. it is very important that we should always open up our emotion to our partners.

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Say "I love you" only when you mean it: Never, ever use the words "I love you" unless it's sincere; don't use the phrase in order to manipulate your partner and pressure him or her into doing something s/he doesn't want to do (in fact, don't try to manipulate your partner period). These three words are intended to convey fondness and commitment. Don't use them too casually or they lose their meaning. On the other hand, don't use them so rarely that your partner begins to doubt your feelings for him or her either. Say "I love you" often enough that your partner believes such words are true but not so often that starts to ignore or even forget the words' meaning.

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Don't compare yourselves to other couples:It's simpler said than done but, don't compete! It doesn't matter what's happening between your friend and her partner. It doesn't matter that your brother is getting married before you. You and your partner are a different set of people so your relationship cannot possibly be identical to anyone else's. Live your own love story.

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be honest, not mean: It's a delicate compromise but you have to learn to express yourself without criticizing your partner unnecessarily. The best advice is to be kind without being a pushover. Know what matters and don't. Remember that white lies are okay ("No, there's not too much pepper in this soup, darling!") but real lies about real issues are not ("Of course I'm not cheating on you!"). Also learn to distinguish the difference between a minor problem with no potential for growth and a minor problem that will likely escalate into a major problem. Sometimes small problems really are just small problems but sometimes small problems are only precursors to bigger ones.

           

         No relationship functions on love alone. Successful, long-term relationships require effort. Effort comes in many forms but one of the most essential ingredients to a romantic relationship is effective communication. And, no, simply talking isn't enough. You and your loved one have to learn how to talk the best way possible---clearly, openly, and honestly. Here's how to communicate the right way with your partner:

     now go suprising them, treat them like you can never have enough of them. thanks have all the fun talking.

                                           peace out 
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