EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION; RELATIONSHIP SUPER GUM.

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION; RELATIONSHIP SUPER GUM.

A day without hearing from you is like leaving with no air.

         I want to start this interesting topic with the story of a couple who has been married for about five years leaving together in the same house, one day the woman was feeling horny, she don’t know how to tell her husband that she wants him. She decided to pretend sick, lye on the bed, with the thought that,when her husband comes back from work he will approach her to pet her on the bed so she will use that as an advantage to get the man to bed.

                As her husband home coming time approaches she went on with her plan, unfortunately for the woman, the man getting home lil depressed from office walk into the bed room to see his wife lying sick. The man didn’t waist a much time, he walked out of the room went to the nearest pharmacy bought her some drugs,came back home and  gave it to her on the bed. 
         
            Because her plan didn’t work she became so angry and threw the drugs on her husband screening “is it all the sickness that drugs can cure”

                Funny huh? Yea this is a little of what lack of communication in relationships can cause. Now this being the case I will like us to get to know some effective ways we can use to communicate to put more swag in our relationships.

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SPECIFY GOAL AND EXPECTATIONS: depending on the kind of relationship you are into or your about going into, specify your reason and expectations first by yourself and then with your partner. Also bear in your mind that most of the expectation may change as the relationship progresses, but first set the bases conditions that are truly important. Such as bases expectations in romantic relationship are “your partner must love only you, should respect you, should  not cheat on you”.

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COMMUNICATE FREQUENTLY:  “A day without hearing from you is like leaving with no air”.

Depending on whether or not you live together and whether or not you're dating each other exclusively, you should speak to anyone from several times a day to once a week. It's true that the more you talk to a person, the better you get to know your partner; the basis to every successful romantic relationship means having a strong understanding of who your partner is. 

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USE DIFFERENT METHODS TO COMMUNICATE: doing the same thing for a pretty long time can get board so as using a particular method of communication can also be. Face-to-face communication seems to be most effective; but sometimes face-to-face conversations are not the best way to discuss some matter. If an issue's particularly sensitive, don't ignore it because it will only become bigger; instead, write letters or emails to your partner explaining your concerns, how your feel, etc.

         

         If you just want to flirt and not talk about anything too serious, phone calls, texting,pinging and IM are all great ways to keep in touch with your partner. Or even use of gift cards with romantic words and love music with nice lyrics is also very cool

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Be frank about sex even if it's embarrassing: here is were must women have lil problem, they always want the guy to be the one asking for sex,or even during sex they want to force the guys to be mind readers to figure out what style she will want to last long.

       Sex (or some kind of physical intimacy) is a part of every romantic relationship so it must be acknowledged. Even if you're only at the kissing stage, you have to be able to talk about the physical aspect of your relationship.even if you lakck word u can  send him ur seductive photo via mms, or better still sms him, i bet those are best ways. Make sure that both people are comfortable with the relationship's sexual pacing; maybe one partner thought you jumped too quickly into "second base," for instance. Keep in mind that your sexual appetites will probably differ (sex once a month is fine for some people while others prefer once a day) and that you must work to achieve a compromise

Another factor to take into consideration is this:perhaps one partner wants to wait until the two of you are engaged or married before having sex. Whatever the case, it's important that you do not pressure your partner in any way and not be afraid to discuss fantasies, preferences, and questions with your beloved one.

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