few days back, i share the part one of this lovely article (if you missed it read here)
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*Find out what he likes:
First, try by asking him questions. Don't take it wrong if he says
something bad about what you like. That's just his opinion, so don't get
mad or give up! Just try something different, but don't stop doing what
you like to do, because he might like someone who does what they like.
If he doesn't like you for who you are, then let him be. Or you can just ask his friends about him.
This may sound funny but it really works, cuz u get his friends talking
about you to him, making your name and your image ringing bell to him.
*Add little spice to the soup: Try
a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up
once in a while. Because variety might be the spice of life, and it
might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from
all the other "okay" looking girls. Give him the eyes, because "beauty
is common, but a good outlook and great energy are very rare." Guys love when girls look them in the eyes.(secret of the 1st order) .
You know, guys hate girls who wear too much make up. They think it
looks hot for a while but then it tends to be like this: They break up
with you (think you’re just a doll) and fall in love with a natural
girl. Don't be a slob.
It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed
her hair, hasn't cleaned her ears (they always look in there) or wears
the same outfit every other day. Even
if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just keep looking
presentable. It is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or
girl.
* Smile and make eye contact: this I call the killer skills,
cuz it can make a statue to move, If you don't smile, he won't notice
you and if he does, he might just think you're boring and not worth
talking to. So you should always put on a great smile to attract his
attention and you think you're not good at smiling, think of something
to make you laugh, find something interesting on his body to like or you
can try putting on a fake smile and then you will notice that a real,
genuine smile will appear all of a sudden.
You have to make yourself happy in order to be happy. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn
how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a
happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.
Be cute. He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a total
wallflower, but if you're just reading a magazine, try and look cute and
wait until he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading
and take the conversation on from there.
*Whisper Whisper:
this is really making him to believe you so romantic to be with. Be
assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy
and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want
to do. Boys like a powerful girl.
Be decisive. Which means make decisions! Tell him what you want him to
do, etc. Just don't get too bossy! When u whisper to his ear he feels
your breath and smells your lips glove, making him wanna kiss that lip. *Wink*
*Body language: Walk
in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out
of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he
should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he
probably likes you. If he's looking your way, give him something to look
at. If he's looking at you, you can: Look away shyly, making you seem
mysterious because he can't figure out why you did that.
*
Look into his eyes really briefly, then smile and drop something so you
can "pick it up". (don't be too obvious, that will make you seem weird
and desperate)
*
Ignore him. Let him watch you by himself. If he is looking only at you,
try to share your thoughts. E.g. You are in a boring class, using your
facial expression and pulled a face at the teacher, then looking back at
him and smile. Sharing these intimate moments makes you closer to him.
But most importantly, do not be indecent. Be yourself, not a plastic
barbie doll. It's okay once in awhile to show off your body, but do it
in a minor way. Don't wear shirts that reveal too much and don't wear
extremely tight pants and shorts that look like Megan Fox should be
wearing them.
*On the other hand:
this comes when you seem to having something in common with him. if you
discover that he's been secretly talking to another girl behind your
back: do something. On a personal level, you shouldn't let him get away
with treating you like that. He's most likely lost interest in you for
some reason, and has decided to follow his (probably) irrational
impulses, and "fallen in love" with another girl. Again, don't let him
think he can get away with feeding you lies and pretending your
potential relationship is okay. Giving him a piece of your mind
establishes that you're an independent and knowledgeable woman, and you
know what's best for you.
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