YOU MUST KNOW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT FROM HIM/ HER Part 2

Last week i share the part one of this post, if your missed it click HERE

NOW LETS GET DOWN TO THE EASY KNOWN TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP:

SECURITY LOVE:

This love is the love that everybody needs to survive. It is that feeling of being cared for and nurtured. Some people would describe this as the type of love parents have for their children. This is so important: high on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs; and studies have even proven that people have died of a "broken heart" (there have been no explanations for their deaths other than that).

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     FRIENDSHIP LOVE relationship:This is a love between yourself and someone that is totally honest, open and comfortable. You really only have this kind of bond with a few people. You might know a lot of people and be "friendly" with them in a group situation but they are not the best friends I am talking about here.
I have a theory that you can not truely be best friends with a member of the opposite sex. Down the line romance will always come up from either party and feelings will be misinterpreted and mistaken. When this happens, the friendship will change and possibly never be the same again.

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BEST FRIEND OR COMPANIONATE LOVE. This lover enjoys the companionship and intimacy of a close friendship. It is a comfortable, slowly developing, trusting, committed relationship, not intense excitement, desperation, or sexual obsessions.

       –Most guy does not believe that a guy and a gurl can be in a close relation without strings attached, it may sound true but it really can exist, as a matter of fact its pretty fun to have a gurl that knows everything bout you vise versa, if you are a player this will favor you cuz she will help bring more gurls to flirt, as much you help arrange you fellow guys for her, if she’s is interested

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ROMANTIC LOVE RELATIONSHIP: aahhha this is the most wanted relationship.

(The much anticipated love!) Most people experience this type of love many times in their life. It is when you see that person for the first time and he/she makes your knees go weak or gives you butterflies in your stomach. i.e. "Love at first sight”. Most people don’t even love the person they think they are in love with…they fall in love with the idea if being in love. This is more of a lustful kind of love; it wears off after a while and hopefully leads to...


This lover thinks constantly about the loved one, is jealous, unrealistic, will tolerate anything, is sexually attracted by physical appearance, needs repeated reassurance he/she is loved in return. Typically lasts a few months or a few years.

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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE RELATIONSHIP: "We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."


This is the sincere love, the love that lasts forever. This kind of love comes when you have found the person you are destined to be with. Nothing can destroy unconditional love. It is like when you have an argument or disagree about something with that person and you realize that it doesn’t bother you because the love you have for him/her overcomes everything.

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GAME-PLAYING LOVE RELATIONSHIP: --this kind of relationship is what bout 75%of guys are into (what a man can do, a woman can do even better).
This person may be charming but is hardly a lover; he/she merely enjoys the dating game. He/she relishes the meeting, the impressing, the seducing, the challenge of a conquest but usually makes it clear there is little or no long-term commitment to the other person. Sometimes they may leave to read their mind yourself.

       There are other kinds of loves and lovers, of course, like the one who searches for a physical ideal--a great body or some specific bodily feature--or the one who is so possessive he/she wants to control the other person and gets physically sick or depressed or does foolish things when the relationship seems threatened."

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