February
is the month of Love! Everyone should be excited and look forward to
making it a special and unforgettable day for their spouses. However,
for some people, it's a disaster waiting to happen. These individuals
evolve different tactics to ensure that they avoid taking their spouse
shopping or giving them a luxurious treat at a five-star hotel in Lagos.
If
you are a lady with your heart setting on celebrating Valentine’s Day
but aren’t sure whether your man is cut out for it, Jovago.com, Africa’s No 1 hotel booking portal shines the light on some signs to watch out for.
Finds fault in everything you do
He
compliments your cooking, tells you how beautiful you are, allows you
to pass the night at the weekend and doesn’t mind where you keep your
things. If however, he abruptly turns the corner and make you feel like a
stranger, your sixth sense should tell you that he wants to get rid of
you before that special day.
Stops calling you
On
a daily basis, he could call you as many times as possible. He doesn’t
miss that opportunity to blow you a good night kiss. But, a few days to
Val, you wait forever for the kiss but it never comes. In the morning,
you call him but he struggles to pick or he laments about you
interrupting his sleep and unexpectedly ends the call. Honey, your
valentine treat is hanging in the balance.
Does not give you money anymore
Whenever
you are ‘broke’, you can confidently put a call through to him and
within a few hours, you receive an alert. He is very reliable that you
have converted him into your ‘ATM’. This does not deny the fact that you
love him, it just means he takes care of you. But, if you send him a
message that you need money this love month, and get no alert, you
should be worried. Yes, he may not have it at that moment but if it
becomes a regular phenomenon, it’s a sign.
Busy Busy busy
According
to relationship experts, no one is too busy to find time for people
they care about. If he apparently gives you excuses for not doing
something he promised because he is busy, it may be an underlying tactic
to avoid valentine’s day expenses.
Valentine is a myth
Some
people genuinely do not believe in valentine. True. But there are
others who claim that they do not celebrate Vals day, not because they
do not recognize the significance but due to the financial burden it
will bestow on them. Their mantra throughout February will be ‘I hate
valentine or I don’t believe in valentine’. If you do not, at least,
your woman does and if you want to keep her after valentine, give her
something special. As a lady, make this point clear before he runs!
I need a break
If
since you both started dating, he was the type who looked forward to
shopping and eating out with you, but as valentine approaches, he
suddenly gets bored or depressed when you are around and doesn’t seem
interested in anything…do not mind him, stick around and get your due!
.If he says, “Sweetheart, I need a break”, not to worry, you can give
him the break after February 14th!
| Ogunfowoke Adeniyi | |
| Travel/Technology Writer | |
| Mobile: +2348090747241 Skype: Sleeksavvy | |
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