YOU MUST KNOW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT FROM HIM/ HER

You must know what kind of relationship you want from him/ her

           Most gurls are so used to asking the question “what kind of relationship do you want?”, and that question constantly piss mi off cuz it used to sound wired to my ears, because I never knew that relationship have differences. And I also know that most gurl whose ask such question don’t really know that, there are different types of relationship.
       
         Relax your mind let’s get to find out what we really want, and the types of relationship we seek.

Types of relationship
       
        As we all know that there are many types of relationship that exist between people, but here gist360.com/loveswaggs is interested in the relationship between spores, male and female. most of these type of relationship might sound strange to us but they exist in us.

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          EXPERIMENTAL RELATIONSHIPS. These are "trying it to test or to experiment what love is like out" relationships. A man who has always chosen partners emotionally similar to his mother, for example, may try Being with someone very different. The intention is to find out how to relate to someone like this person, and what such a relationship is like. That can open a door to finding new ways of behaving with others, and perhaps to discovering little-known sides of oneself and allowing them to grow. Dating relationships often have this quality of exploration. When two people in an experimental relationship make a connection that clicks, it may evolve into one of the dominant forms. Or an experimental relationship that almost clicks, but not quite, may influence what a person looks for in the next partner.


          Most of our first relationship is usually this type. tho in the middle of it most guys tend to forget what they are into till the gurl ends it. After the heart break, that's when the guy or the gurl come to know what she’s in for, in that relationship.

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       AVOIDANCE RELATIONSHIPS. This a funny kind of relationship, most people are into it but somehow don’t know exactly what’s going on. There is this gurl, she like you and you also like things about her but somehow something you can’t explain seem to be blocking you guys’ way of being intimate. It always feels like you want each other; yet you don’t want each other

        This pattern may involve people who protect themselves against any deep intimacy with others or any full contact with their own deeper feelings.
Or it may involve people just coming out of a relationship who are afraid of still more of the painful feelings of loss, mourning and failure that often accompany splitting up.
         A history of past loss of a parent, other family member, partner, or close friend by abandonment or death, and the fear that "If I get too close to this person it will happen again" is a common part of the pattern. The defining quality is that the partners choose someone with whom they can avoid the feelings or patterns of behavior that they want to stay away from.
This type of relationship is mostly possessed by gurls, yes she wants you but she don’t want you guys to be together yet she won’t let you be, if you're about walking away she will give sex to keep you close with the reason that she don’t want get hurt again neither does she want to hurt you.

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      PASTIME RELATIONSHIPS. This is a very sweet type of relationship but very tempting, no strings attached A pastime relationship is essentially recreational& emdash; for fun and games; and is identified as such. Although some hopes may attach themselves, expectations seldom do. A summer romance is likely to be a pastime relationship. In most cases,
Circumstances make it unlikely that the relationship will be an enduring one. Passionate, delightful, and tender while it lasts, there's no expectation that it should be more than that. 

The dominant mood and theme is "going with it fully for all of what it is." This mostly exists between a sister of your fellow guy friend, or old school friend that you use to e found of. Everybody needs this tho if miss interpreted by your spor it could be dangerous

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